So here we go guys: the home stretch. I wish at this point I could have been an expert at this whole pregnancy thing but, one of the most important things I’ve learned throughout my ENTIRE pregnancy is, every pregnancy is different. Even now at 39 weeks (40 weeks TOMORROW) I’m still trying to figure out which feelings are normal and which aren’t. I can tell you what I experienced this trimester.
First of all, let’s talk about my moods. For some reason, I assumed my moody phase was over after the second trimester ended but as it turns out, it definitely wasn’t. While I contribute a lot of these feelings to anxiety and wanting to give birth and have it over and done with, I have definitely been crankier lately as frustration sets in over my large belly. I have also realized that I have little patience with people that don’t understand what a burden it is to be this pregnant. The people staring at my giant stomach on a train, the man in the coffee shop shoving me because he thought there was a giant gap between me and the person in front of me, all of those things are just a little too much to bear at this point when all I want to do is just live, an inconspicuous girl just trying to figure things out.
Speaking of moods, I can say that once I hit the 36th week, fear immediately set it. Like can I do this? Can I birth an actual human out of my lady garden? How much is it going to hurt? What if I have to have a C-Section? I’m only 5 feet tall and I don’t have childbearing hips! The thoughts so overwhelming that during the middle of a conversation with Lukasz about hospital preparation, I started to cry. Well, I don’t know about everyone else but I can say now that at almost 40 weeks, I kind of just want it to happen to get it over and done with. It’s all inevitable so if I could just go into labor right now, I would really love it so I can move on.
Otherwise, here’s my advice for the third trimester. Your hips are going to hurt so bad. So far, I have figured that I can’t lay on my stomach because the baby is there. I can’t lay on my back because it cuts off oxygen to both, me and the baby, and now I can’t lay on my sides because my hips will hurt on either side from all the pressure. I also begin to pinch some nerves from laying on my side so my whole leg goes cold and then numb. You know, just basic fun pregnancy stuff. I do find, however, that it helps to stick a giant pillow between your legs. Just use all the pillows to prop yourself up. Like all of them. I even have throw pillows sticking out from under me.
Also, as far as what to wear goes, I do have to say I have been so lucky. I haven’t had any swelling, except the occasional light hand stuff if I eat too much salt of spend too much sedentary time outdoors on a hot day but feet-wise, I’ve been good and still fitting into my size 5.5 shoes which I’m forever thankful for. My maternity pants have begun to get a little too snug but I’m still making it work but basically what I’m trying to say is that being at the end of the third trimester during the middle of spring has really been a blessing in disguise. I have squeezed myself into some dresses so I don’t even have to worry about pants and leggings have been everything to me. (I still recommend the ones from Old Navy). As you can see from the picture above, I’m literally a basketball with arms and legs.
Finally, for my last piece of advice/complaint: Have your hospital bag packed or else your partner will remind you every second he gets. This was kind of fun, I mean it’s almost like you’re going away on a trip except you’re going to a hospital to push out a human being. For my hospital bag, I’m using the baby bag that I received as a gift from my parents: the Skip Hop Duo Signature Diaper Bag in the Hearts pattern. I’m in love with it and eager to start using it right away because everything about it is adorable. You can look up a few lists online of what to bring to the hospital but most of them are overwhelming. I’m trying my best to keep it simple and stick to the necessities. I also checked my hospital’s website which was nice, simple and it also gave me a list of what they will provide for me so I didn’t have to pack unnecessary goodies. My mains are a going-home outfit for me and baby, an iPad, chapstick and lotion because hospitals are dry and breathing during labor gets intense, toiletries and socks or sandals to walk in while at the hospital. I’m open to any other necessary suggestions. I’m a newbie so advice is always welcome.
Tomorrow, guys. 40 WEEKS TOMORROW.